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We have become prone to creating a phantasm of an irony around ourselves which may be as a result of external stimulus, we have the fear of what the opposite of that ironic phantasm may look like and even being left with our own thoughts is a nightmare to many. Unfortunately, our addiction to this condition (ironic phantasm) has significant consequence that could be a danger to our mental and physical health. I always felt the urge to write about breaking free , perhaps because i need to break free from a particular character, person or whatever. My thoughts were all disillusioned and i did not know. I know you must be wondering what i mean, but keep reading and you'll find out. Exams had ended, i finished my defense with the economy getting so bad, and the rise and rise of dollar, i decided to go home and continue my search for greener pastures. I was so excited to go back to my lovely family that i had forgotten i was leaving my new home, a place i always loved fr...

Many people live their lives raising their expectations to an unrealistically high standard that can never be possibly met, with that type of standard they can never be satisfied or happy.  It all falls back to the problem of our individual mindset, we create illusions forgetting it is often perfectionism. Life rarely works out exactly the way we want whether in relationships, work, or goals and many times wanting happiness requires that you let go of those expectations and learn to be content with how things are, rather than how you picture they should be in an ideal world. Most of us folks live a fantasy life forgetting that change is constant! Trust me, waking up to the real world in time is way much better, less painful and time saving. Studies have shown many ways perfectionism can destroy happiness. 1. It leads to feeling of regret. In today's world, women shout and cry out for equality when they still do not believe in totally making their own income, and ...

Welcome back to Lispire!  I know I haven't made a post in a minute, but i have been making plans on making Lispire a better place. Making my readers comfortable is my first aim and then getting the right message to them to another, and wow!, Lispire is now so beautiful and very easy to navigate. We are evolving and you have to agree with me even though it may seem so slow but remember, "we work to become, not to acquire" . Lispire will keep on becoming as the mind of the writer is open to all possibilities. You can always reach out via comments and share experiences through email.  Lispire is back to stay!